Your boyfriend says one thing to you but his actions say another. It's something a lot of women experience. The guy they're in love with swears that he's committed to them, yet he does things that just don't ring true. When you're in love with a man you naturally want to believe him when he tells you that he loves you and no one else, but when you notice him acting in peculiar ways, it's understandable why you'd begin to question him. If you're wondering about what's really going on with him, there's a way to get a much clearer picture. There are some signs he's not committed to you that will help you really know where you stand and where the relationship is headed.
Here are 3 signs he's not committed to you:
You haven't met his close friends or family members. When a man is serious about a woman he wants to make her an important part of his life. He'll be anxious for her to meet the people he feels closest to and he'll arrange for them to spend time together. If your guy has yet to invite you along to meet his parents or friends, he's definitely not committed to you. He may not see you as the woman he's destined to be with yet.
You have trouble finding him or getting in touch with him. Men who are committed to their woman are available. They want to talk with you and they long to spend time with you. If your guy doesn't answer his phone repeatedly or he drops out of sight for days on end, he's nowhere near being ready to commit to you.
He doesn't want to talk about the future at all. If a man doesn't see you as part of his future, he'll avoid talking about it altogether. You can typically tell a man is doing this the moment you say something about next year or a few months from now. If he is shying away from a discussion like that, commitment isn't even on his radar yet. He can't see past tomorrow or this week because he doesn't feel that emotionally attached to you.
There are many other signs he's not committed to you but if you notice any of these three you should be having doubts about where his true feelings are. It's always better to have insight into what is truly going on with your guy than to sit patiently waiting for him to show a sign of wanting to be committed to you.