All women secretly wish their man lived to please them. It almost seems as though they do in those very early days of the relationship. Your guy was likely poised to do just about anything to get you to love him back then. Now, he doesn't seem to care one way or another. That doesn't bode well for romance or for you having your dreams fulfilled, does it? You want a knight in shining armor who will do whatever it takes to put a smile on your face. If you want that, it's up to you to get it. You can learn how to get what you want from a man. Once you do your relationship will never be the same again.
Understanding how to get what you want for a man is all about putting yourself in his shoes. You have to think like a man in order to get a man to want to please you. Think about what appeals to men. Men like when women are direct, independent and easygoing. Those are the qualities you need to be focused on if you want to get your guy to an emotional place where he feels as though he'll do anything for you.
As women we tend to beat around the bush for fear of upsetting the delicate balance of the relationship. We'd rather hint incessantly about the bouquet of flowers we'd love or that restaurant we want to go to. Men, on the other hand, just come right out and say what they want. You need to learn how to do that. If you can look your guy in the eyes and tell him that you need something from him, you'll stand a much better chance of getting it. Not only that but he'll be more inclined to start anticipating your needs if he's clear on what they are.
We've all heard the dating advice that suggests that you need to act like the damsel in distress in order to get your guy to fall for you. It does help in certain circumstances, but overall you'll fare better if you're independent. He wants to see that you can stand on your own two feet. Men find that hot and it's something that instantly attracts them to a woman. Once he knows that you are capable of handling virtually every situation, he'll set out to help you more because he'll want to not because you need him to.
Check your drama at the door if you're going to be seeing your guy. Men don't do well with women who have lives that are filled with never ending crisis. He doesn't need to know about every single thing that's going on in your life. If you present yourself as carefree and easygoing, he'll be more inclined to spend time with you. By leaving your baggage out of the equation, you'll ensure that he'll want to get closer to you.